I understand what you're saying but 4 and 2 is SO young, they're formative years. Please Don't limit their access to Dad because of money. Let them decide for themselves when they are older.
Sep 12, 2008 Rating
Dear Confused by: Anonymous
You suck.(JMO) So basically youre saying that even though he helped create the children, that he has no interest in supporting them whatsoever, that he should get custody? We custodial parents and I don't mean just moms, have every right to b***h about the money that helps us provide for the kids needs and when we don't get that money it interrupts in the provision of those needs. It's a struggle to be a single parent even when you get child support but at least when you get it you have that help and that's more then you would've had before but for someone who is showing no interest in paying or providing or calling or coming thru on even just one of the promises made to those kids, he should have no say in anything at all then.
Sep 07, 2008 Rating
Confused by: Anonymous
You talked about money more than you did your children. If paying the bills is such a struggle and you aren't able to make it on your own, maybe you shouldn't have custody as you are obviously going to hinder your childrens future opportunities
