No Child Support does not cater to fathers

My fiancee' was divorced and he was ignored when his daughter was living with him and her mother was not ready to accept motherhood. So he filed twice and each time, they conveniently never received his application. I watched my fiancee and his mother sacrifice everything for his daughter while his daughters mother didn't even buy Christmas Gifts. So she finally got her act together and asked to keep their daughter more often. So he agreed because he never wanted to take his daughter from her and even on the Divorce they kept it joint custody. So he kept paying for everything while she stayed with her mother 4 days out of the week.

Well, my fiancee' and his ex-wife got into a argument because she got caught spending his money that was meant for his daughter by slipping and calling him asking for her money. He threatened and told her if he found out she was using their daughter to get extra money out of him, he was taking her back because that is not the reason why she should be staying. She retaliated by saying do it if you want to "I'll put you on Child support".

And the next day, she did it and without my fiancee' having a court date by hiring a lawyer and making it a private case. Child support division didn't care about side of the story, charged him for back child support from the time she was born, asking for all this proof to prove his daughter lived with him and when we send it after faxing, it never comes through and our son is over a year and we are struggling just to get it reduced after filing a appeal several times, and I'm unemployed so we have been struggling because Child support is taking away from us. No one is listening to him and a CS Representative had the nerve to tell him "we tend to favor the mother" after he asked why they didn't ask her for proof that he was a dead beat and why didn't they try to hear his side. I hate Child support, not every father is a dead beat.

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wonderful world of child support
by: t.parker

Child support is big biz and its a shame all a woman has to do is go down to the agency and file. Bottom line its about money and they have the judge on their side. I made 2 mistakes by not protecting myself. Young and stupid . But dhcs sucks even worse. I hate them and someone needs to change the bullshit laws with cs. Race plays a part also. Black women lol they dont get it. You are already stupid in their eyes n black men well we have it the worst. So to end all .....fuck child support and im not too fond of women so whoever wants to talk it out or whatever plz email me and i will get back at ur hipocritical ass. Luckielefty@yahoo.com

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NO lube
by: Anonymous

It aint no better here in Az. They rape the sh*t out of you with no lube.

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From The Inside
by: Anonymous

I am the person you talk to when you make that first angry call. I do not mind, because you are right, and no one knows this better than I do. I tell you, as gently as I can, what the truth is, and I warn you that it is not pretty. You are custodial and non-custodial parents. All of you have legitimate grievances particular to your situations in life. You are incredulous when I tell you all that you must to do to take on a system whose first lie to you is that the system will take care of you. Here is a little of what I say

Know the 3 agencies who are all up in your business. The District Clerk. The Attorney General. The State Disbursement Unit.

Learn their phone numbers.Write down their names.
Know the case, cause, and account numbers each one of them uses to find you and your ex. Become expert in each of their convoluted functions because in that lies your own strength. Call when you can take the time to learn these things, and do whatever it takes to make that time. You will NOT get this done on your break at work.

And finally, hope to God that I (or some other stressed out discouraged government worker like me) will answer your call. Because we will tell you the truth that neither you nor I can change right now.
And we may help each other. We will most assuredly suffer together. But we might get it done for your children, and that's why we're doing it, right? God bless you all.

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criminal charges
by: Anonymous

See if you can file criminal misconduct charges against the child support goon. While they like to pretend they are lawyers and judges they are not. They perjure themselves in court so this is another area to nail them. Official misconduct types of charges vary from state to state.Maybe practicing law without a license would also be an avenue. You must make them pay and fear for their freedom and their jobs.

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Texas child support is a bunch of CRAP!!!
by: Anonymous

The Texas Child Support system is ridiculous!!! My fiance is supposed to receive child support from a deadbeat mother for the past 10 years and he's NEVER seen a dime!! Hes reported her twice and they never go after her. If it was a man, best bet they would have him hung by his toes. Most ridiculous thing I have EVER seen in my life.

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wow
by: Anonymous

trust me the child support system will fall guarantee had a female actually give custody of my son to someone at birth without my consent 10yrs later go back for child support and back pay and they gave it to her

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