No rights

by Ray
(Colorado Springs Colorado)

For the last ten years I had been paying child support for my daughter which I havent spent no time with her at all. To matters even worse every time I went to court try to get my child support reduce or even get visitation rights the mother never call the court or they say they couldnt find her. Recently she contacted my daughter but my fear is she will do more damage to my kids which they are grown but yet remember all her harsch words towards them. She claims she always try to keep the communication open thru the courts and they will not mail letters to me from my daughter, ( what a big lie that is). I just want a relationship with my daughter, I want womans to stop treating the child like a piggy bank and stop violating our rights as a father. Is a simple matter and for the woman that say that child cost alot of money well if you are so concern with all the expenses give them back to the father. I will do anything to spent time with daughter but yet the mother refuse to do so, only if they know the damage they are doing to the child by no letting them spent time with their father.

We have rights also but no child support office or court care about that, they think money is going to give them happiness and dad and child relationship. I hope the money give them health and happiness.