NO SYMPATHY FOR THE MEN & I AM SICK OF IT

by MsACJ
(Cleveland, Ohio)

I am a female who works for a living, is engaged to someone who owes over $30,000.00 in Child Support (Arrears) for 2 grown children most of which is Interest and He's collecting Disability. First of all I will say to these women out here, STOP ALL OF YOUR WHINING AND LIVE YOUR LIVES AND STOP BEING SO DAMN JEALOUS!!! A lot of women Re-open child support cases after they find out what their Ex-Husbands are doing then they feel like Holy Shit...now he's going to live better than me so they march their Green-Ugly insides down to the child support office like the Woman Scored and plead their case.

My situation is kind of unique, my Fiances Ex-Wife waited almost 20years then decided to reopen a child support case. She was already getting his Income Tax refund payments, then onto the Stimulus Checks, and now his Disability Check is being Garnished. Also his ex-wife has been married a couple of times while the children were growing up so what about the man that was in the childrens lives when they were younger, and right in the household with them. Is he responsbile for anything, I mean after all there were 2 other dads in the childrens lives besides the biological dad.

Now I'm asking this because my Fiance has also paid for 2 children that were not his AT ALL by means of them getting checks through him being disabled. What kind of shit is this world coming to??? There's always a place for Women to go, a place for them to get assistance, someone's shoulder for them to cry on, but NEVER TOO MANY PLACES FOR THE MAN TO PLEAD HIS CASE. Even attorneys are mainly hired/retained and geared towards assisting the Female to Collect her money, and to hell with the man. I think I feel this way because the man DID NOT PLANT THAT SEED BY HIMSELF, THE WOMAN HAD TO BE THERE TOO, and there is such a thing as A DEAD BEAT MOM WHO'S MILKING A MANS POCKETS FOR CHILD SUPPORT. It should be TOTALLY ILLEGAL FOR CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS TO BE COLLECTED FROM A DISABILITY CHECK.

Also the laws make it damn near impossible to get rid of money thats not even owed which is INTEREST...INTEREST IS NOT OWED, IT IS ACCRUED, MEANING...A MAN WHO OWES 30,000.00 IN ARREARS, PROBABLY ONLY OWES $12,000,00 IN THE ACTUAL CHILD SUPPORT. SO WHERE IS THAT OTHER MONEY GOING..IS IT GOING TO THE DEAD BEAT MOM WHO'S CRYING OUT FOR HELP, IS IT GOING TO THE STATE, where the hell is it going. I just want to say, I really do feel for all the MEN WHO HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS SITUATION because it's not all about taking care of the children, especially when the children are GROWN, SOME OF THIS SHIT IS ABOUT A SCORNED ASS WOMAN WHO CANNOT GET THE MAN BACK, DOESNT WANT HIM TO HAVE A DAMN THING, AND MAD BECAUSE HE MAY BE TRYING TO LIVE A BETTER LIFE THAN HE HAD WHEN HE WAS WITH HER. Sincerely, from someone who's VERY CONCERNED ABOUT WHAT HAPPENS TO THE MEN!!

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