One night stand wants child support 3 years later.
I was in basic training 17 years old. I met a girl who was a "lesbian" whom wanted a child of her own. I lived in RI as she lived in FL. She wanted to "know me" better before she decided she wanted me as the sperm donor for my genes and such. Well we ended up in a hotel room hanging out and one thing lead to another. There was a condom used. Well my buddy knocks on the door and we never finished. A couple months later and that being the only time we did anything she told me she was pregnant. Even from then she didn't want me to be dad. She wanted her own lesbian life. We talked here and there but that was all untill we graduated basic training. I get back to RI and meet my new girlfriend. The one night stand randomly contacts me again a couple months later at 8 to 9 months pregnant saying she's doing well, has a loving girlfriend and asked me to visit them and knock her up. I was not going to do that and she knew so it was okay. She let me knew the month 'our' son was born and she still didn't want me to be a part of his life. Now my girlfriend was pregnant at that time also so all I cared about was my new family and not her who did not want me to be involved in any way. My sisters and mom still talked with her for a year about and she still did not want anything from me. Well right now I have a 19 month son with one on the way with my wife. This is three years after my one night stand who just contacted me wanting 500 a month in child support. I am having a hard time supporting my family and paying child support will leave me less than 200 a month to support my wife, baby, newborn to be, dog, cat, and myself. She wanted nothing untill now. She also has another son with her girlfriend. I also can't guarantee that child is even mine. What would the best way to appeal this shit she now wants to put me through? I'm already stressing enough with financial problems and now this is going to kill my family.