Paid my child Support to my Ex Wife


(San Antonio Texas)

I paid my child Support to my ex wife . She ask me to agree to pay her directly because it took so long to get the payments. I did and it was my big mistake. 25 years later . My daughter now 33 years old, Married with two children of her own. My ex sues me for child support arrears. Her and the Greedy lawyer claim I never paid at all. They get a judgment for 148,372.23. The Lawyer garnishes my wages however he sends a paper to my employer for 163,137.53 . If you add the judgement and his fees it adds up to 163,137.53. He has levied and taken my bank account. for 17,254.23. Then he goes after my 401 k gets it and it is sent to his office . So it is not sent to the childsupport office like it is suspose to be. I am paying 1/2 of my check and he is still greedy . Luckly I was faster than the Lawyer and got most of my 401 k out before he did.


I will admit I get a giggle out of it when I think about how he probably was so dispointed when he realized their was not very much left in it . When he was guessing and estimation that it should have be about 90,000.00. How wrong he was and it makes me feel good to know his bubble was busted. Then he gets his hope set on me inheriting from my father estate. Which I told my father dont leave me anything. He will just get it. I also get a kick out of it . Knowing he was quite dispointed when he realize i did not inherit anything.Bubble busted twice. Next he is going after my Dads estate. Using my case as an excuse to get the records. However I dont think it is really is about me anymore. Because their is not anything in that account for me.

My father had CDs in my name , my sister name and a couple grandchildren and great grandchildren. But my father was the owner of the CDs . He cashed them out and deposited the money into another of his account .He chose not to have the cds left in the bank. So it will be another bubble busted for the Attorney.
My advice to any man. Yes you should pay your child support. However their are a lot of men that think they are doing the right thing by just paying the EX wife. 'Dont do it. Pay the child support to the court ordered location.

Second if your child or children are grown up and you paid that way or perhaps you never paid at all. Dont think you are safe. I would say take your money out of the bank or credit union. Live on a cash basis. I know that most people think that is impossible but believe me it is not. I now live that way and it feels great. To know no one can just jump in and take my money away. I would say you are not safe with a 401 K. either. So take it out . It probably isnt making any money anyway right now. Sale any motercycle , boats , Rv anything extra is at risk. Keep cash and have nothing for them to get. Hope someone is listening , been their and done that. Oh and dont get divorced in San Antonio Texas(Bexar). To crooked for you.

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A PRIVATE MATTER
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FIRST AND FOREMOST CHILD SUPPORT IS A RACKET THAT BRINGS A PAYCHECK T0 MANY KINGS AND NOBLES WHILE THEY FEAST OFF THE BLOOD OF THEIR VICTIMS-THE FATHERS - WHO THEY FORCE TO EAT SOUR GRAPES. THE TWO ADULTS THAT LAID DOWN AND HAD THE CHILD KNEW THAT IT WAS THEIR PRIVATE CHOICE TO DO SO AND THEREFORE IT SHOULD BE A PRIVATE CHOICE BETWEEN THEM AND NOT SOME OUTSIDE SYSTEM ON HOW TO GET THEM RAISED. THESE ISSUES ARE NOT COURT ISSUES BUT PRIVATE FAMILY ISSUES. IF THEY CANT GET MONEY ONE FROM THE OTHER FOR A CHILD-THEN DEAL WITH IT-

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OUR LIVES ARE BEING RUINED TO
by: Anonymous

everyone concerned with the ridiculous child support law - in the name of a child that is way past 18 - who was the law firm that did this to you - please respond - we need to change that law....

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KEEP ALL PROOF/RECEIPTS
by: Cindy

First of all, I thought there was a statue of limitations on recouping child support after the child reaches a certain age? I understand any back child support can be recouped and any interest or late fees still accrue but, like, when a woman withholds knowledge that a child is a mans and then 10+ yrs later they try to get it retroactive. Then the child may have a certain amount of time to sue the noncustodial. Did you not save checks or receipts that you wrote to the mother? I never dispose of any of my checks that could possibly be evidence for any type of LAW SUIT OR COURT. NEVER,NEVER,NEVER-dispose of checks for child support, house or land notes,major purchases,and to FAMILY, etc. My (BITCH OF A SISTER)did that to her ex and he is paying still today for his son that is deceased at age 19(he would be 29 today)and for his drug addicted daughter that is 27. He will never ever get it paid off. I think it is wrong for women to do this but the're are alot of them like that out there. KUDOS to you-just hope this SNAKE OF A LAWYER dont get you behind bars. How does your Adult Daughter feel about her mother doing this?Good Luck to you

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Its all corrupt, people
by: eric

Want to ask this, when you apply for a income readjustment, your hourly rate changes, your income changes at your job, while you wait six months fora hearing, they are still deducting the same amount from my old employer and my new emplyer, hell its fine if you make the same,,but if you make less than your first job...your fucked...so where does the difference go?? people wait as long as 6 months, it adds up quick...so they violate the constitution of the United States..it states they will take unemployment as well..any income they will take...Life, Liberty and happiness..or do we use the constitution anymore. I cannot afford to live, I have applied everywhere for work..Cant pay rent, or utility bills..The constituion is supossed to protect us from this..Oklahoma is a no fault state, but also the bible belt state..My wife committed adultry, took my daughter, and took everything...Adultry..Really..but couldnt use that against her..but the bible says its a sin..you go figure..these people are only puppets.

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so true be forewarned
by: Anonymous

Couldn't have said it better, now i'm not saying to avoid paying support but if you paid don't do it directly to them you can do it thru the court even if no case has been established yet FYI highly recommended, Sacramento, CA is no better than Texas they will charge you twice or triple if you can't prove you paid you mys well give them everything cuz they have no shame in taking it from you and don't forget the interest!!!

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exs that are crazy
by: Anonymous

well she should take anything else from you .Do you have anything left i am a woman reading this for my husband and i will tell you now i have a ex husband and make the state pay me its been like that since we have been divorce they based it for 10.00 a hour and that was 7 years ago My husband is going throgh hell right now his ex-wife is crazy
-She put her children in danger just so would get what she wants. She is a B@@@@ we have to go to court over her we think she is going for child support he might have to pay who knows but if he does he is going to go thrugh the state that she cant do what your ex-wife done good luck hope everything turns out

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