Paid my child Support to my Ex Wife
(San Antonio Texas)
I paid my child Support to my ex wife . She ask me to agree to pay her directly because it took so long to get the payments. I did and it was my big mistake. 25 years later . My daughter now 33 years old, Married with two children of her own. My ex sues me for child support arrears. Her and the Greedy lawyer claim I never paid at all. They get a judgment for 148,372.23. The Lawyer garnishes my wages however he sends a paper to my employer for 163,137.53 . If you add the judgement and his fees it adds up to 163,137.53. He has levied and taken my bank account. for 17,254.23. Then he goes after my 401 k gets it and it is sent to his office . So it is not sent to the childsupport office like it is suspose to be. I am paying 1/2 of my check and he is still greedy . Luckly I was faster than the Lawyer and got most of my 401 k out before he did.
I will admit I get a giggle out of it when I think about how he probably was so dispointed when he realized their was not very much left in it . When he was guessing and estimation that it should have be about 90,000.00. How wrong he was and it makes me feel good to know his bubble was busted. Then he gets his hope set on me inheriting from my father estate. Which I told my father dont leave me anything. He will just get it. I also get a kick out of it . Knowing he was quite dispointed when he realize i did not inherit anything.Bubble busted twice. Next he is going after my Dads estate. Using my case as an excuse to get the records. However I dont think it is really is about me anymore. Because their is not anything in that account for me.
My father had CDs in my name , my sister name and a couple grandchildren and great grandchildren. But my father was the owner of the CDs . He cashed them out and deposited the money into another of his account .He chose not to have the cds left in the bank. So it will be another bubble busted for the Attorney.
My advice to any man. Yes you should pay your child support. However their are a lot of men that think they are doing the right thing by just paying the EX wife. 'Dont do it. Pay the child support to the court ordered location.
Second if your child or children are grown up and you paid that way or perhaps you never paid at all. Dont think you are safe. I would say take your money out of the bank or credit union. Live on a cash basis. I know that most people think that is impossible but believe me it is not. I now live that way and it feels great. To know no one can just jump in and take my money away. I would say you are not safe with a 401 K. either. So take it out . It probably isnt making any money anyway right now. Sale any motercycle , boats , Rv anything extra is at risk. Keep cash and have nothing for them to get. Hope someone is listening , been their and done that. Oh and dont get divorced in San Antonio Texas(Bexar). To crooked for you.