Paying excessively and not seeing my son
by Mr wiz
Been ordered to pay ex-wife $600 per month maintenance and $277 child support too. But, I am paying 7 months of retro active support and maintenance at $1854 monthly. This leaves me with $660 per month to live on. I also am custodial parent of my daughter.
Ex-wife has now disappeared with my son and I have not been able to see him for over a year now. The guardian ad litem told me she would give both children to me but since divided them. They are both siblings and adopted. The daughter has severe mental and behavior problems which I am trying to get her the help she needs. Ex-wife didn't want to deal with it and abused the daughter and DFS stepped in after a neighbor saw ex-wife beating 12 year old in front of house. Of course no charges ever filed on ex-wife.
But, I'm stuck paying excessively and can't feed my daughter or pay rent. Ex-wife is being payed ontime every two weeks thanks to a judge, who I feel is being influenced by ex-wifes friends connected to the system. Can't take much more. I feel justice would be a bullet in my head and the challenged child back to the ex-wife and no more funds to the ex-wife. Ex-wife earns the same amount as I do but she has a business and her taxable income is only $17,000 annually and judge based all figures from one tax return.
Ex-wife is living on an easy figure of $4,000 per month. judge gave me all marital debt which forced me into
bankruptcy. Proved to the judge that ex-wife abused credit cards and kept secrets from me in the marriage. There was no wrong doing through out the marriage but I'm stuck with eating sh** sandwhiches everyday.
Extra employment is hard to find daughter needs continous care and my attention all the time. My lawyer did absoluetly nothing and told me I wouldn't have to pay child support or maintenance and the judge would give me dollar for dollar credit with marital assets. My lawyer also helped me lose $49,000 from my pension and my house went into foreclosure and I have to pay ex-wifes lawyers fees. I could have represented myself and saved lawyers fees.
I thought the system would have seen this monster was divorced 3 other times and is an abuser of prescription pain killers and was in contempt of court by not notifying me where she was living and the ex-parte order of protection her and her lawyer filed on me was so far fetched and an abused motion of the court.
I am still shocked. My lawyer lied to me, the opposing lawyer harassed me with restraining orders, the judge and his abuse of ordering unobtainable goals has got me really hating this judicial system and this country with the way I was treated. A friend of mine I had not seen in a few years went through a divorce with the same judge and opposing lawyer and he was screwed just like I was. I don't get how this can be gotten away with. This was in Missouri county of franklin.