Please Help the fathers

by Been Had To Long
(Some where away from oklahoma)

Here is my story from hell. My daughter is 16 years old has a child hasnt' been in school since she was 14 years old. Her mother has been in and out of jail for years. She has a 19 year old son thats so high on pot that he cant see .Now last year when my daughters baby was born I was paying child support thru the teeth for years to her mother. Her mother thought they would move to my home town so dad could see the baby.. So they droped the child support.We closed the case. I paid the arrears . All was good. Well my daughter and her mother we found out were big liars and thiefs while they were here.They came buy 4 times a day wanting money a dollar, 2 dollars ,change.It was getting old for me. I currntly have 3 beautiful kids and a stable family. My wife and i were about to go insane .

We found out the mother was using drugs and she couldnt hold down a job for crap. So they leaned on me for everything.Well after they got evicted several times, they moved back to hell , oklahoma. It wasnt long afterthat they re-established child support in full swing. Never mentioning all the money i forked out for there habits while they were here.I tryd to get my daughter to get away from her mother and she said no. Her mother is dead wait, baggage holding her down to a life of drugs and poverty.

Now im not rich i lost my job and now have a 10$ an hour job taking care of 3 kids, everyday and it's hard. now haveing to pay way over 300 dollars in child support again based on a figure in 1999 is totally insane.If this was a good thing i would find a way to help my daughter but theres no way in hell I will pay for there drug habbits.So my fight continues. Dealing with the state of oklahoma over the years , going there picking my daughter up at crack houses, guns laying around her moms house seeing the way some people live there makes me sick. And now the damage is done. it will cost me 1500.00 to get a lawyer from oky and just to have a crack head social worker or judge say , thats what you pay.. is horible.. So there you go thanks for listening..