REVISED: PART 2: WOMEN ARE TREATED LIKE SECOND CLASS CITIZENS

by Ray
(IL.)

We mothers not only want the Fathers involve but we also want the most calm and stress free environment we can Provide for our Children and by their father lack of involvement with their Child including Financially would be a plus not a negative.

First and far Most!!! I do believe that a Child has the right to both Parents regardless From The day of their Birth. Even if the couples are not married or even in a relationship. Even if the man left her during the pregnancy married or not at the time. That does not matter they are both the Parents and both have rights. But,this did not happen to me and I just wanted to vent I am sorry. I am just talking about WOMEN AND THE FIGHTS WE HAVE TO BATTLE BEING A WOMEN. Please do not take that Wrong.

I am a 52 years as I stated before a Very Proud Single Mother of 2 intelligent, beautiful teenage daughters inside and out. The MONEY is all I care for NOT. I own my home outright and I have a career as a Nurse and the MONEY is for the Children I don't need it. I just think Men need to realize how expensive it is to raise a Child they say $100,000 through the age of 18 years old plus College.

Now, here I am its the Past now and I just want others to know how these deadbeat dads not dealing with moms you'll need to go to another site for that only dealing with again only with Issues concerning the treatment of Women and their Children.

I was LUCKY I had great PARENTS who both died in 2003 within 6 months about and in 2003 the year they died 54 years. Their Children came first.
Not ALL WOMEN KEEP THE DADS AWAY FROM THEIR CHILDREN. A lot of Deadbeat as you called on it say the Mother would not let them see the Child. Don't believe it!!! If they weight 9 yrs and have a Attorney they can afford to represent them an from day one request no Visitation. Now how his that the Mothers fault.

If he waits until the Child is 8 years old at that time it was his other High Priced Attorneys fault. Sure.

Then why spend $25,000 for an Attorney go to Court from 2001-2003 well over 50-70 times with only 3 concerning visitation and the rest were cont. court hearings which cost BIG Bucks for reduction and hiding is place of work from the Court. In 2003 it stopped after 50-60's because he knew he would be caught and in Contempt of Court.

SO, THINK BEFORE YOU JUDGE WOMEN on all they want is money.
That would never have been an option that my Father earned DAD ever would contest any thing that would aide in hampering the development in his Child's life from not seeing them and being there for us from day one and making sure with being available with him present emotionally and financially. Now that is a REAL MAN. Even if my parents were never married he would have still been involved the the pregnancy to the Birth. However my father did not indulge in behaviors that would take away from his family such as Alcohol. Another bit of information I'm adopted at 6 weeks and never was I treated differently. In my case he said he would not request visitation because she did not have his last name. What kind of tunnel vision is that! I bet a lot of adopted parents would take that offensively because their Children don't even have the same Blood.


After this blog the Content will be Why we Women feel that way and the CHILD SUPPORT LAWS and how they are not being ENFORCED. How Women need to be involved in their own cases because it is at the best interest of the Children.

All about the MONEY please. What can you buy for $39 a week and its never paid more then $25,000 were paid to the Deadbeat Attorney it comes out as $10 a week a negative $10 a week for 18 yrs. He got 6 tax deductions. So, don't tell ME its about the money.
It's a MAN that acts responsible towards their Child or Children. I only am talking or writing about issues that I have experienced, researched on being a part of it. I am a College Graduated and I think I mentioned my field of studies were in: psychology, abnormal and normal Adult psychology and abnormal and normal child psychology, childhood normal development, criminal law , criminal justice and many others in those area I have a very impressive amount of college credits in those area's and then some. Not just Book knowledge but experience.

I needed to explain myself in Part 3 and on u-tube soon you'll understand more clearly.

Thank You for Your Time and Comments I hope with your input I see what mistakes I made an will focus on the Problem no on my problem.

I always will be Writing Articles on Health Care, Domestic Violence against Women every kind from Rapes to Murder. Online blogtalkradio and u-tube. Again Thank you for your Input it helped me get to Focus on Why I am doing this not for just for me but for other Women and Children.

Thank You