SCREWED DADDY

by IRENE
(HARTFORD MICHIGAN USA)

MY HUSBAND,HIS/OURDAUGHTER (TOP),ME AND OUR OTHER 3 KIDS

MY HUSBAND,HIS/OURDAUGHTER (TOP),ME AND OUR OTHER 3 KIDS

HI I AM WRITTING ON BEHALF OF MY HUSBAND. I KNOW THERE ARE PLENTY OF DEAD BEAT DADS OUT IN THE WORLD BUT NOW A DAYS THERE ARE AS MANY DEAD BEAT MOMS OUT THERE TOO. MY HUSBAND HAS A 13 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WHO OFCOURSE LIVES WITH HER MOTHER NOW OUT OF THOSE 13 YEARS I CAN TELL YOU WE RAISED HER IN OUR HOME FOR ATLEAST 11 OF THEM YEARS. THROUGH OUT ALL THOSE YEARS HE HAD HIS WAGES GARNISHED EVEN THOUGH HIS DAUGHTER LIVED WITH US WE DID NOT CARE BECAUSE SHE WAS WITH US. LAST YEAR WE WENT DOWN TO TEXAS OH WE LIVE IN MICHIGAN AND HAVE LIVED HERE FOR 11YEARS ANYWAYS, HIS DAUGHTER DECIDED THAT SHE WANTED TO STAY WITH HER MOTHER AGIANST EVERYTHING SHE HAS GONE THROUGH WITH HER AND AGIANST OUR WISHES BUT LIKE WE TOLD HER SHE IS HER MOTHERS DAUGHTER AND WE KNEW SHE LOVED HER WE WERE AFRAID SHE WOULD GET HURT AND ANOTHER REASON IS SHE HAD FULL CUSTODY WE COULDNT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. LET ME TELL YOU A LITTLE ABOUT HER MOTHER AND THIS COMES FROM EXPERIENCE IN DEALING WITH HER.


WHEN I MET MY HUSBAND THEY WERE NO LONGER TOGETHER AND OFCOURSE SHE STILL WANTED HIM BACK SO WHEN SHE FOUND OUT ABOUT ME SHE WENT TO THE EXTENT OF NOT WANTING THEIR DAUGHTER AROUND ME AND TOOK HIM TO COURTWE ALL KNOW WHERE THIS ALL WENT. SHE GOT FULL CUSTODY. HE PAYS CHILD SUPPORT EVERYTIME EXCEPT FOR NOW BECAUSE HE IS UNEMPLOYED. THE ONLY TIME SHE WANTED HER DAUGHTER AROUND ME WELL SHE DIDNT MIND SHE WAS AROUND ME WAS IF SHE WAS GOING OUT. THERE WOULD BE DAYS SHE WOULD COME DROP HER OFF (THIS IS WHEN WE STILL LIVED IN TEXAS) ALL DIRTY NO CLOTHES BUT A DIRTY ASS DIAPER THAT WOULD BE HANGING SO LOW FROM NEED A CHANGE.

THIS WOULD PISS ME OFF SO MUCH SHE COULD DRESS UP TO GO OUT BUT NOT THE DAUGHTER. SHE WOULD LEAVE HER WITH US FOR MONTHS AT A TIME WITH US NOT EVEN KNOWING WHERE SHE HAD GONE.SHE DOES NOT WORK LIVES IN HOUSING BUT YET ALWAYS HAS TIME TO GO OUT AND PARTY. SHE HAS MORE KIDS NOW AND HAS TOLD ME SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO WORK WHEN SHE CAN LIVE OFF WELFARE AND CHILDSUPPORT. WELL WE MOVED TO MICHIGAN AND BROUGHT HIS DAUGHTER WITH BECAUSE SHE SAID SHE COULD NOT STAND HER CRYING ALL THE TIME OR BOTHERING HER WHEN SHE WANTED TO DO THINGS SO WE WERE LIKE OK WITH HAVING HER WITH US.WHEN WE MOVED HERE WE HAD A 1 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER OF OUR OWN AND HIS DAUGHTER WAS 2 1/2. SHE WOULD NOT SEND BIRTHDAY CARDS OR PRESENTS FOR HER ALWAYS HAD AN EXCUSE OF WHY SHE HAD NO MONEY BUT WAS GETTING CHILD SUPPORT FROM MY HUSBAND.

WELL BACK TO THE BEGINING OF NOW... HIS DAUGHTER STAYED IN TEXAS THIS TIME WE WENT DOWN TO TEXAS BUT HAS BEEN CALLING US WITH DESPERATION OF WANTING TO COME BACK HOME SHE HAS TOLD US SHE CAN NOT STAND TO LIVE WITH HER MOTHER. SHE LOVES HER MOM BUT NOW THAT SHE IS OLDER SHE SAYS SHE KNOWS WHY WE DID NOT WANT HER THERE. SINCE SHE HAS BEEN WITH HER SHE HAS BEEN BEAT UP IN SCHOOL WHICH SHE SAY SHE DOES NOT LIKE THE ENVIRONMENT IN THOSE SCHOOLS. SHE BABYSITS HER BROTHERS AND SISTERS THROUGHT THE WEEK BECAUSE HER MOTHER SPENDS HER TIME GOING OUT.

SHE TRYS TO HAVE MOTHER DAUGHTER TALKS BUT HER MOM WILL NOT HAVE THEM WITH HER. AT WHAT A GE CAN SHE DECIDE WHERE SHE WANTS TO LIVE WITHOUT NEEDING HER MOTHERS APPROVAL WE BELIVE THIS ENVIROMENT IS NOT GOOD FOR HER AND WE GET SCARED WITH HIS DAUGHTER TELLING US THAT IF SHE HAS TO STAY THERE ANY LONGER SHE DOES NOT KNOW IF SHE WILL LAST. WE CANNOT AFFORD A LAWYER TO EVEN TAKE HER TO COURT WE CANNOT OBTAIN PROOF OF THINGS THAT WE MAY NEED SINCE WE ARE IN ANOTHER STATE WHAT CAN WE DO HOW CAN WE DO THIS WE DONT WANT OUR DAUGHTER TO HURT HERSELF.HER MOTHER DOES NOT LET HER WRITE UNLESS SHE KNOWS SHE WILL NOT WRITE TO ME HER MOTHER DOES NOT LIKE ME SO SHE TRIES TO PREVENT HER FROM MANY THINGS. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTION ADVICE OR HELP LET ME KNOW. THANK YOU

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