You tell me how a person is to live on $300 per month? I am not a dead beat dad, I have worked my entire life and became seriously ill a few years ago. I now receive $800 per month in Social Security, over $500 is taken from the check before I ever even see because of the State of Arizona. During the months I spent in the hospital I was charged with a felony for not paying my child support in Oregon (on the same case). My ex-wife after finding out about my illness decides she is going to start seeing other men, which she did, we divorced and I moved to Arizona where my illness became worse. Once out of the hospital I was visited by local law enforcement who where there to arrest me for not paying child support. Where do these government nazis come from, everyone from my ex to the child support division knew I was in the hospital but they charged me anyway. You know cause I could have been released on my good days from the hospital on a work release program! BullSH*T. I explained to the officers what was going on and they suggested I go to Oregon, which I did, immediately.
While there (in a wheelchair) because I am unable to walk, I am ridiculed by the justice system for not paying the previous few months! WOW this keeps getting better. My make believe lawyer tells me to make a deal, which I did. I was ordered to pay $75 per month, no big deal. Wrong. That is on top of the $400 I am currently paying from my SS check presently, this is to pay down arrears, now this gets interesting. Now I pay over $500 per month, the court in Arizona and in Oregon tell me I must pay twice that amount! Ya, so as I am paying the (rather, the amount is deducted by the SS administration automatically) $500 per month, another $500 per month is going in arrears and accruing interest against the balance, so now I am disabled I receive $300 per month to LIVE on and I owe Arizona and Oregon $70,000.00, and no one sees anything wrong with this? I guess I am just a selfish, dead beat father, for just wanting to barely survive. Oh ya and because I may die at any moment, my ex wife has denied me visitation to my daughter for fear she (my daughter) may see me drop dead in front of her. And the officials won't do a damn thing about this. I hate this system, it makes absolutely no sense accept to those who wish to destroy lives.
Arizona is a joke,i went down to phoenix to marry the mother of my son,(women are cold calculating cannibals and arizona police,as well as the court and most people are all tools women use to trade their flesh and blood for a small monetary gain)i was 30 years old never in trouble with the law,then 3 weeks in arizona im in jail,then out,then in all that woman had to do was say i did this or that and the brainless police would come and arrest me thinking they were heroes,i was restrained from my home my son,labeled an abuser and i guess she told em a great story cause i was even charged with threatening to kidnap my son!finally a female officer -I respect this one officer for her keen insight and willingness to speak out against the other officers-(god bless you maam)told my now ex-wife i come here again and youre going to jail as well,i was released and basically thrown from arizona,not the officers doing.then charged with failure to appears and child support for that period-but i got my son a year later turns out my ex was a crack whore,and the boy was in the way of her chosen vocation on her knees,the police never bothered to look at what she was and my son suffered for it,i raise him with love and the awe of a father but god help those arizona folk if kharma comes a knocking!
May 28, 2010 Rating
Evil System by: Anonymous
I am sorry to hear what you are going through. It is a sick, twisted system that is unjust and evil. I've known so many men who have been abused by this system through no fault of their own. These collection agencies are notorius for making errors and not correcting them, then they ruin your credit by claiming you didn't pay enough.
We need to overturn this cold, evil system and get back to a constitutional government that treas each citizen with respect and dignity.
The mother should be charged with a crime for kidnaping the child and denying visitation rights.
Apr 21, 2010 Rating
worthless by: Anonymous
moms are pices off shit all they want is a pay check and to lay and get paid for it
Aug 23, 2009 Rating
I UNDERSTAND by: Anonymous
I am a father going through some child support Nightmare myself. I wish everyone would stop seeing us men a a source of money instead of human beings. We can love just as much as a women. Women are not as helples as they were when the laws were writen. In my case my ex disappear with my daughter for 13 years. The courts quashed my wage assignment and the child support division closed my case. For 8 years the court and the child support division refused to take any payments. I found my daughter when she was 17 years old and got my ex out of hiding. My daughter is now 19 1/2 and my ex now wants all the back child support that the courts, child support and she refused for so many years. And they are telling me I have to pay it. How was I suppose to pay a court order when the courts, child support and my ex refuses payment for so many years. Now I have to pay her in one lum sum. How is that far or even right! She disappears with my daughter I find them, my daughter is now an adult and now she gets rewarded for taking off with my daughter. The support was there in payment and she refused it now I have to pay her all that plus interest. Wrong so very wrong. I am fighting it in court now. We arfe human we have feels and live as well. You women are not as helpless as you mke yourselves out to be.
Aug 19, 2009 Rating
Stolen payments by: Anonymous
Well, sorry for your illness, but it's obvious you weren't paying at some point of time to owe 70,000.00. So,you understand what it feels like to struggle now, imagine being the parent with custody, trying to make ends meet , when you were able and not paying.
