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Stop the blamin

by candi
(pine bluff, arkansas)

I asked my child's father to pay a fraction of wht we both knew cs would require. He cheap scaped me down fifty bucks, and then refused to pay that. After three months of non-payment, i phoned and asked for forty dollars for pampers. The child was around 30 months old at the time, and he said that she should have been potty trained by now. This is after months of no support. What do you do in a situation like this?

I got cs involved. They required a little over twice the money I had been willing to accept in assistnace. I went back to school, and he quite his job, or started to go in to work drunk, and was fired. He phoned me so happy, as though he had won the lottery. "I was fired" then he laughs and asked me how my classes were going. Insane... he is currently about 30,000 in arrears.

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I don't like him
by: Anonymous

Well he is the prime example of a "DEAD BEAT DAD" assholes like that, are the reasons that good fathers like myself and other great fathers get sooooooo screwed by the system. One bad apple like that spoiled it all. Go get that dumb ass he deserves it. I just don't understand how some women will go after the one who love, care and wants to be a part of there childs lives but the one that don't care about there children are the ones that get to walk away Scott free. Thats why I beleive the child support laws are so screwed up and need to be changed. From a fathers point of veiw get him for all you can. I can't stand a person like that. In my case my ex disappear with my daughter for 13 years (from the age 3). I continued to pay child support until I was instructed by the courts and child support to stop paying (2002) because they were closing the case because my daughter had been either adopted or passed away. I desparately searched for her and finally found her in 2007 (16 yo). and now my daughter is 20 years old with her own child and my ex wants and got 7 years of back child support with 10% interest on top of that. And I ask why?? I did what the courts and child support told me and now almost 10 years later they tell me "oops" we made a mistake and you have to pay for it @ $45,000. WOW, I am married with 4 children and a house, etc that we are about to lose all because of dumb asses like your ex that don't want to be responsible for there kids, we good fathers get the shaft for there actions.

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