Let's see, because I know that you won't publish this, I am going to be brutally honest. Mother's are constantly presented with additional expenses not included when the courts determine the set child support. i.e. Doctor's visits, clothing, school trips and supplies, medications, lost income to take children to appointments and missing work due to illness and so forth.........all not included in child support. Stop whining, I have it tough raising three teenagers who have a father that pays child support, but that is it. No new shoes, dental visit payments, school trips.........nothing. Guys, if you really cared about your kids, you would cooperate more with the mothers, stop pushing them around and maybe compromise. This in itself would stop the bickering. Just live up to your responsibilities and take it like a mother!!!