Texas Laws and suffering children
My daughter is now 8 years and has had a mental break down. I made her angry by refusing to marry him when I was 3 months pregnant. He left and never heard from him. I worked 3 jobs and was a single mom of 2 boys already. I had to be put on state insurance to finish out my pregnancy so they went after him. I have never asked him for money I am a strong woman and will make it on my own. Well she was fine until 6 yrs ago and court order visitiation he decides he wants her in his life. I had to let her see him. He would visit her 5 mins at time out of his 2 hour visits. He saw her 3 times so a total of 15 mins. Then he asked me to meet to her to toys r us so he can take her Christmas shopping so I did. He than called my cell and told her that he was running behind and he would be there in 30 mins and go ahead and pic out what she wanted he had 500.00 for her. She did and he never showed up and he never called again.
It destoryed and hurt her so bad my 6 yr old child shut down and had to see a therapist. Here I am upset I failed her as a mother. I am never going to let it happen again to her. Now on her 8th birthday he calls and she hates him. The oag says he has rights as her father and I will be in contemped if I refuse him visitation. So us as parents are responsible for our childrens saftey and wellbeing. I let her make her mind up on this and now I am on the run evading jail for contempt. Really she made her mind up and told him herself. I am told my child has a right to know her father, but yes she does and she does not want to.
So as her right under our federal law she has rights to as an american. I had to hold her for 9 hours and tell her I promise nothing is gonna happen to you. All she could do is cry and say please dont let them make me go. I am not going to make my child fell afraid. 8 yrs the state had me play by their rules and never forced his duty to help me finacially and I never asked cause I was doing fine. I cried as my lil girl blew her birthday candles out and wished for him to go away he can chose his kids so I can chose my daddy. God I pray to you for help. How as a parent can force her? Parents can be charged for endangerment, neglect, and abandonment cause they did not stand up to protect them from mental and physical harm, now when I do I am going to jail. So where is the justice for her? All you mouthy people put there think us women want money and you really have no idea.
We want our children to be happy and complete. All my lil girl wanted was a father and now this. I will protect her If I get caught they still will not get her. I never asked for money and I never will. I have told the state when she is safe I will turn myself in but I will be there until she is 18 cause I was her mother and I am going to protect her for life. So please dead beat fathers feel the burdern whatever. You cannot pick when u are parent children are smart and have hearts and souls too. Let them selfish childish men have their money, the state will never get it for you and the state does not truly have a clue on what is best for your child only you do. So when I have her safe and happy all you think of how she feels about losing the only parent who has been there.
I had to tell her where I was going and why cause I am never going to bend the truth for her. Every morning she says blessings thanking God I am here another day. But with all this I know when she is a mom she will put her kids first. I tear up when she says I have the best of everything, momma I know you love you cause you are doing this for me. Thank you and God will help us I know. So men as long as I live and breath never call yourself a daddy unless you truly earned it. And I pray that one day the state and absent parents relize you are hurting part you and in the end the children know how you are and they suffer.
But I have to say to all that say we just gold diggers for fancy houses cars, my children will never be bought and I got by on my own and tought my kids to give to less furtuned people and I am at peace with my life and we the world needs more giving people and than things will be right. Money is just tool to ease your childrens suffering temporally what they want is a parent who shows them love, safety, and happiness. And do to the nature of words my daughter used to her father I cannot post her feelings on here so you could understand how she feels. But thinks for your time I hope you all go home and love your kids and family hold them tight and hope they know you love them cause you never know when the last hugs and kisses and mommy I love you is. And to the woman who is bashing us real mothers here I pray your kids never hear it cause if their parent is gone and u on your own they will not respect you cause you are not ever going to be strong enough to fight for them as you should. Thanks for listening guys I hope things get better for you all and may God give you a blessed day and peace for your children and loved ones. And Texas OAG get your laws staight for the children not for you to get rich.
I am a mother, and a father the protector for mine I know my children know whats best for them not me or you. I have asked for years to leave us alone and my daughter does not need no more. Whats best is the absent parent to stay gone so the child never has to feel unwanted or like they are burden. Your not God so stop playing with the hearts and souls of precious children.