THAT'S NOT MY CHILD !!!!

by ADRIAN L. MASON SR
(GARY INDIANA)

HI MY NAME IS ADRIAN MASON, I LIVE IN INDIANA AND I HAVE 2 AND A POSSIBLE CHILDREN. I KNOW THAT SOUNDS CRAZY BUT THATS HOW I LOOK AT IT.MY SON IS BY ONE WOMAN AND THE GIRLS ARE BY ANOTHER.I PAY CHILDSUPPORT EVERY PAY CHECK.

ONE OF THE GIRLS I STRONGLY BELIEVE IS NOT MINE. THE GIRL IS 14 YEARS OLD 6 MONTHS AFTER SHE WAS BORN I HAVE DENIED BEING THE FATHER OF THIS CHILD. PEOPLE ON MY EX SIDE TRY MAKE ME OUT TO BE HEARTLESS BUT I FEEL THAT I CAN SAY IF WE WERE SLEEPING TOGETHER OR NOT.EVERYTIME SHE GETS MAD AT ME, SHE TAKES ME TO COURT. WHEN WE ARE IN COURT THE JUDGE NEVER EVER LISTEN TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY. I ASKED FOR A DNA TEST AND HE FLAT OUT TOLD ME NO !! WHEN I TRY TO GET HELP NO ONE BELIEVE THAT THIS IS POSSIBLE.

SO I TELL THEM CHECK COURT RECORDS TO SEE IF I ASK AND WHAT HIS RESPONSE WAS. I AM SO PISSED AT THE FACT THAT IF I HAVE NO RIGHTS TO FIGHT THIS. FOR ANYWOMAN OR MAN THATS READING THIS, PONDER THIS QUESTION FOR ME " IF A MAN DENIED UR CHILD FOR 14 YEARS , WOULDNT YOU HURRY UP AND GET A DNA TEST JUST TO SHUT THIS PERSON UP? BUT INSTEAD OF DOING THINGS THIS WAY SHE CHOOSE TO GO AROUND TOWN AND SCANDALIZE MY NAME. SHE WENT AS FAR AS POSTING PICTURES OF ME AROUND TOWN SAYING I AM A DEAD BEAT DAD, EVEN THOUGH I PAY CHILD SUPPORT.THE COMAPANY THAT I WORK FOR HAD CLOSE DOWN TWO YEARS AGO.

SO I WANTED TO GO TO COURT TO TRY TO REDUCE MY PAYMENTS TILL I GOT A NEW JOB, CUZ THE UNEMPLOYMENT CHECKS BARELY AND MEAN BARELY COVERING ME AND MY WIFES BILLS. SHE DIDNT EVEN SOW UP FOR COURT.I DONT THINK A MAN SHOULD BE FORCED TO TAKE CARE OF A CHILD THATS NOT HIS.I HAVENT HAD A TAX RETURN IN 7 YEARS, THE TAKE 65% OF MY PAY CHECK. HERE IS THE REAL KICK IN THE HEADAFTER LOSING MY JOB, I SEARCH FOR A JOB FOR ABOUT 2 WEEKS WHEN I DECIDED TO JUST ENROLL IN SCHOOL GET A DEGREE AND HAVE A CAREER. WHILE I WAS IN SCHOOL SHE PETITION THE COURT TO PUT ME IN JAIL CAUSE I DIDNT HAVE A JOB. NO SHE DIDNT KNOW I WAS IN SCHOOL.

SO WHILE WE R IN COURT I EXPLAIN TO THE JUDGE THAT I LOST MY JOB AND INSTEAD OF SITTING AROUND DOING NOTHING. I ENROLLED IN CULINARY SCHOOL AND I DID HAVE A PART TIME JOB. SO HE TOOK 65% OF THE PARTTIME CHECK. I WAS PISSED SHE LEFT THE COURT ROOM SMILING AND LAUGHING.WHAT REALLY GETS MY GOAT IS SHE DONT WORK HASNT WORKED IN I DONT KNOW HOW LONG, DONT PLAN ON WORKING.

I SAY WHY WOULD SHE WHEN OUTSIDE OF MY CHECKS SHE GET EVERY GOVERMENT ASSSITANCE AVALIBLE. IT MAY SOUND LIKE I AM RAMBLING BUT THIS IS SO FUSTRATING CAUSE NO BOIDY HELPS US AND NOBODY PUNISH THOSE WHO BREAK THE RULES. I AM GLAD I CAN VENT A LITTLE BIT. IF ANYBODY HAVE ANY IDEAS HELPFUL HINTS ANYTHING TO HELP ME FROM LOSING THE LITTLE SANITY THAT I HAVE LEFT. THANKS FOR LISTENING ADRIAN

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advice maybe
by: Anonymous

Keep doin what ur doin and once your back on your feet have a career go back to court with lawyer dna test results and ask for modification in custody be part of her life if she is yours and in doing so earn your right to have say in your childs life and more custody less childsupport payments good luck not an easy road to travel been there your not alone, also look into a father group or parenting group looks good to judges and they have the resources to help you find an inexpensive lawyer and walk you through the process it does work but may take years

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