The solution
I came on to this website for research purposes and got caught up with some of the comments.
Why are so many irresponsible people having so many children??? Keep your clothes on or be prepared to tough it out and stay with the other parent of your child(ren). Adults too often make decisions that will make their lives more comfortable and figure that their children will simply deal with it. I teach 12 and 13 year olds, believe me when I say...children don't deal with it.