Sure as hell sounds like your whinning & complaining. I,I,I, Me,ME,ME is what I got from your post, then try to claim 'Mother of the year'! Really??? if you need a pat on the back cuz you do all these noble things i suggest you hit up your ex for that pat. He is the only 1 benefiting from all your sacrifics. Child support is the right of your child. If you want to get all nobal I suggest you collect the support owed to your child stick it in the bank & give it to her on her 18th b-day
Aug 08, 2011 Rating
PLEASE JUST KEEP YOUR MOUTH CLOSED!! by: Anonymous
Lady u sound real stupid and i think u just need to shut the hell up!! It seems to me that you're not really doing to much you can barely provide for your 13 year old child put a sock in your mouth to keep it closed please!! How about taking your own advice before you start yapping them gums
Nov 23, 2010 Rating
You are anything but a mother by: Chrisie!
You think you're a mother? The tax payers are raising you and your child. When you EARN the money its a different story. You don't earn a damn thing. You need to shut your face and get to work. Equality right? I am not going to sugar coat it for you because you are disabled. Go find a job you can do. Pot calling the kettle black for sure. You are a disgrace to working custodial parents! Just shut up you MOOCH.
Aug 02, 2010 Rating
Unbelievable! by: Anonymous
Wow! I thought I had heard it all. I don't know if I would be so proud of yourself, when you admit to getting assistance for all of yours and your daughters needs. You may think you don't need your ex but your daughter does. She needs you to pursue the issue for her sake. I am fully sympathetic to your disabilities, but I am a single mother who gets nothing from my ex, does it all alone, insurance, day care, cholthes, food, you name it. It's a bit offensive to me to have to be paying for your child. I already have one mouth to feed, I don't think it's fair to have to help you too.
Jun 17, 2010 Rating
Give me a break..... by: Anonymous
Umm Who is paying for you to go to school?? Taxpayers correct?? Your getting state assistance correct??
Shouldn't the dad be helping pay for his kid and not us taxpayers?? We didnt make the baby. You and your X did. How can you allow him to remove his arrears?? That should be up to the state that is paying your way. I guess if we had a free ride we wouldnt be whining huh..
I think maybe your still in love with your x and trying to get him back by driving all over and trying to take care of the arrears..Its really sad!!
<3 Your child would have a better life with the love and support of 2 people!!!!
Apr 26, 2010 Rating
lol! I have never seen anything so stupidity! by: Anonymous
I think your as ignorant as they come! Woman like you are the ones that make us hard working single mothers struggle to pay taxes on for what you get on your table everyday! I get no child support from my kids father and that was court ordered! And as for you saying they we helped make our children.. Well obviously something was between our legs to to help create them! And you bring so well educated hopefully you know what that is!
Jan 28, 2010 Rating
Whatever by: Anonymous
Um, unless u made the kid alone then yeah he should be paying. If you don't want his financial help then whatever but it'd be a cold day in the land down under before I'd drive a thousand miles to take my kid to see someone who could care less about him/her. There's a whole lot more to it than just financial. Your kid would be better off with no contact.
Jan 16, 2010 Rating
Whoa, let me give my opinion by: Florida Mom
I am sinlge, in school, FULL-time, with a FULL-time job, and is helping take care of my disabled mom, but my childs father pays why because HE HELPED make the child, there is no way I am going to drive so many miles, kiss "bottoms", and/or whatever you do to make sure he sees his child and all in between beacuse that takes his effort and he should want to do all that for his child if not honey that his "bottom" he paying to help my child's growing bank account for his future not just me, and if he was not paying, I am making sure his "bottom" stays in the system till he take some responsibilty for that child, one way or another as you did mention the child will know who had their back their entire life. Honey think about set that pride aside, its hard enough out there take advantage of your resources that is what they are there for,but continue to strive kudos to you, GOD BLESS all in your family!
Jan 11, 2010 Rating
... by: Anonymous
I am a single mother i work two jobs and go to school i have a 3month old. when i told her father i was prego he up and left me joining the army.yes its hard to do it alone and help would be nice i always put her first and she always has what she needs i dont get food stamps or wic or health care for her because im busting my ass working two jobs just to get her what she needs . you say stop whinning but how can u say such a thing ur collecting on food stamps and ss some people do not qulify for that i being one of those people. all of my childs clothes are hand me downs her crib stroller bed set and everything else except her carseat. i am taking her father for child support really because i do need the help having no health insurance for her is hard and him being in the army will help me with that i dont need the money to be handed to me or to be put in my bank account i'd much rather him buy her what she needs and drop it off or mail it.it takes to an i agree im doing my part as a mom but he hasnt even come to see her. so im not after him for my needs im after him for hers. so before u go and start making blogs/post about mothers whinning remember not all of us can sit home and collect!!!!
Jan 08, 2010 Rating
wow by: Anonymous
lot of negativity in comments I for one am proud of what you have accomplished, I think you might see the problem many women are taking advatange of, for their own financial gain rather than whats in the best interest of the child, not sure if I agree with erasing support if it due then hold and maybe one day he will have to pay or lose license etc. he is responsible for help care for that child too regardless if you can do without it or not college is not cheap anyways glad to hear from a women not attempting to extort the system ,good luck
Jan 07, 2010 Rating
Seriously? by: Anonymous
Maybe if you would put some effort forth and get the money you are owed in child support I as a taxpayer could stop paying your bills!!!
Jan 05, 2010 Rating
youre ridiculous by: Anonymous
Hey, Ive been disabled and I cannot drive at all....you have NO RIGHT whatsoever to judge other disabled moms out there..im glad you got an education and your life is so perfect....I dont need preaching from someone like yourself...get off your highhorse lady and go to work since you are so able to do it.
Dec 13, 2010 Rating
Still needs to pay by: Anonymous
Yes, I agree that women need to get jobs and be able to support their kids...but what pisses me off is that my sons father is a spoiled little bitch who's rich parents have paid for all his bills and bailed him out of jail every time he's fucked up so he knows no responsibility. He will not pay me, because he doesn't want to. THAT IS NOT OKAY, and I will not let him sit here and let his son suffer because of this. I do not get support from the state and have been having a difficult time getting a job where I live with NO CAR. Last car broke down and I have no money to get it fixed or get a new one. What am I supposed to do?
Oct 20, 2011 Rating
Wrong on so many levels by: Anonymous
It has nothing to do with how much you understand that he's not paying. Your child is entitled to both parties pulling their weight. If you decide to not fight for what your daughter deserves then that's on you. Not the rest of us. And who told you that others don't make a way by shopping at the thrift store and such? I work my butt off and can't get ahead for anything. Somehow I make too much money and can't even get the assistance that my tax dollars is and has been (for 14 years) going towards.
