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Unable to speak n see children

I was separated and divorce in 2006, 2 young children. I give my Ex $1403 per month. I had my wages garnished that way she can never say I missed a payment. She still calls me a deadbeat. The only time I am able to speak to my children is when I visit with them. According to our court papers I have to let my ex know that I am planning on visiting with the children, except how am I suppose to do that when she doesn't answer my calls and blocks me from emailing her. She cashes the checks I should be allowed to speak and visit with my children. Additionally, she tells the kids that she hates me and now my 2.5 year old is repeating it, of course the ex denies it. Why is she allowed to do this. When I mentioned it in court they just told her Mrs..... you can't do that. Child Support - should be attached to Visitation.
You don't let me visit you don't get your $$$

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Nov 07, 2008
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I agree 100%
by: Anonymous

Child support and visitation shold not be seperate.
If a custodial parent is recieving child support and is not following court orders to allow visitation the court should cut off the funds and the problem will be immediately resolved. Un fortunately the courts seperate custody and child support. All the courts seem to care about is money. When you cut a bully off by not allowing to recieve funds you will get results.

I should know I have never missed a child support payment in my 15 years of paying, but currently havent talked to my son or seen my son in over two years. I have been totaly alienated from him. There is nothing I can do , but go back to the institution and have her held in contempt. What good is that? I'm absolutely sickend over the corrupt laws we have pertaining to child support and custody.

Oct 10, 2008
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Big Mistake!
by: David

Are you crazy? Sorry, but I had to say that. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER pay a custodial parent directly! If you are ordered by the court to pay her, then your money MUST go through the system. In turn, they will give her a check. What will happen now is that you will be in arrearage and have to pay penalities, fees and everything else. The only way to get that reversed is by going to court. However, the state may claim that you gave her all money as a gift and make you pay it all over again. Bottom line; you will never get out from underneath this burden if you don't go to court NOW. make sure you have all your receipts too.

As far as visitation; if there is a court order allowing you visitation and she isn't following it, you can take her to court by getting your own attorney. She may even have to pay your attorney fees for violating the order. Parents can not deny visitation because the non custodial parent isnt paying support. However, the judge will come down on you as well if you're not.

Please get this resolved now, before you get too far in the hole.

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