Unfair Laws of Child Support

by Al-Azeem Zarif (Lou G. Harris)
(Norfolk / Hampton / Newport News, VA)

I have three grown children. I have always wanted to support my children,even though the mothers of my children never got married. But because child support has been a way for the the laws involving child support and the women of the children pretty much keeps the man out the child's life.

I say that for the following reasons. I have always may it a point to make sure that money was taken from my pay checks and all tax refunds where taken and placed towards my child support. But in the state of Virginia (which has some of the most racist and negative laws in the country, because of it's Commonwealth status and being one of the 1st slave states to have slavery), men in general(especially Black men)are treated are as slaves in respect to there children. Virginia has a Willie Lynch mentality that make him a slave to child support simply for the money factor. They incarcerate you when you pay your child support and when you don't. A lost of job and none payment will get you locked up. So how is that helping the child in the long run. I have been locked up behind child support, which forced my employer to fire me. Of course the court didn't give a damn, because it was about the law. They had no reasons to lock me up for child support, because the child support was being paid.

Now here I am 2 months away from becoming a 60 year old African male still paying child support to a state and the fact that all of my children are grown adults and will be starting their own families one day. Virginia as well as other states and rich white America has just found another way to divide and conquer the Black race.
Take the male element out of the child's life and the woman and children become even more of the slaves to a White Willie Lynch society.
Men need to fight the bull shit laws of this country when it comes down to their seeds and women you should change your attitudes when comes down to men. Because you open your legs, and then hold men totally responsible for the bullshit involving Child Support.




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I swear these white folks get on my nerves!
by: Anonymous

How can you say that race is not a factor when you Know the truth? I swear these devils will not admit they have a problem and then they have the audacity to act as if the prejudice behavior don't exist when countless amount of racist claims had flooded their airways via tv radio and thru various forms of social media. Let me help you out you perpetrator of evil...I know child support is currently being paid throughout all races but white people are treated alot more civilized then all other races and the black races get harsher penalties. It doesn't mean that you got magic fairy dust on your ass it is a result of the racial injustice inside this country that plagues the whole chance for equality.

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Race is a very significant factor
by: Anonymous

The laws in this country boast about being blind to race and sexual orientation, religion and so forth but when you have a 70 yr old judge who don't have the capacity to dismiss racial injustice and believe that slavery was a justified way this country operated along with the idea of white superiority makes it completely impossible for a judge who sits inside that profile to be able to adequately judge fairly. I know you are probably thinking that racism is a myth inspired by jive ass blacks trying to get some free shit! But the truth is slavery and the greed from the unrelenting participators of this shame will always view all other races outside his own as being cursed and judged harshly. Child Support enforcement is a great shame that this country endorses and in the end it will be another reason why this country is the most poorest of all. How can you suspend someones license or destroy their credit or add a felony to their name and expect them to adequately pay child support? If anything these are devices used to hinder the parent from paying their fair share of support..Dead Beat DaDs right? This is ok while real criminals drive around with good credit probably in stolen cars.

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got opped out the program
by: Anonymous

I got opped out the program in 2006 she refiled in 2012 so they went all the way back to 06 in payments but I have been takin care of my son the whole time I had a nother kid an she reopen the case out of spite now they say I owe her 11,000 in back support

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the race card
by: Anonymous

Race dont have anything to do with it. Im a white man and i pay child support every month and i got screwed too. the problem is the way that the laws are written.

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Race?
by: Anonymous

What does you being Black have anything to do with anything. White people pay child support as well dude...get over the Race issue.

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unfair
by: Anonymous

Yes it is unfair that a minute part of the majority of men pay their child support yet, most do not. It is not about who spread their legs because the man drops the seed into the woman to create the life. Anyway, if the majority of men manned up and took care of their children emotionally, physically, and financially, the "white man" would not have to step in and help him out. If you lose your job, create your own job, cut grass, cut hair, clean beauty/barbershops, push bean pies, do whatever it takes to support your kid. Because if the mother is single I am sure she is doing what has to be done to take care of that child with an absentee father. Stop whining about the situation and do something to turn the situation around.

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unfair
by: Anonymous

I agree with you. I am a woman but some single mom out there all they do just collecting child support and never go to work. On top of that, they are supported with the government by means of their food and etc. I don't know how they get away with that..I hate women who are lazy all they do is milking the state. It's totally unfair and the government here in u.s really sucks esp.when it comes to child support. Every week they taken a lot of money from our paycheck and that pays for the single mom and low income people. I don't really agree with that. You need to work to survive esp. in our situation right now.

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It has nothing to do with race...
by: Anonymous

No where in any law does it state "charge the black male more child support". Unfortunately by claiming that race has anything to do with your child support, your argument falls on deaf ears. My husband is a WHITE male. He pays his exwife enough money for her to pay her mortgage every month. She does not need to work, and therefore doesn't. All the while we are not able to afford our home any more. We have had to file bankruptcy on the debt that he had acquired during his previous marriage and we still are not able to keep our home and pay child support. Now we are forced to move into a one bedroom apartment and the children (he has 2 kids) will not have their own rooms (a boy and girl are not allowed to share a room). We simply cannot afford to keep a home. Our bills, necessary bills such as our mortgage (keeping the home that the children had previously lived in), is not a priority but we believe it should be. His exwife had committed adultry, picked the kids up and moved in with a man she was having an affair with and now my husband is paying enough support through the courts that she sits back and can afford to not work and still have a home and purchase a new van. Not fair. And keep in mind, my husband is WHITE. Stop bringing race into the equation. Whether you believe it or not, it has nothing to do with the child support laws being unfair. However, the fact that you are a male does. And to the person that claimed we should just change our situation, child support would adjust. The more my husband makes, the more his ex will take. It would actually benefit us more if he didn't make as much money as he does. We love the kids with all that we are but it does not require as much money as the state of NJ is taking on a weekly basis to take adequate care of them.

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