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Unfair Laws of Child Support

by Al-Azeem Zarif (Lou G. Harris)
(Norfolk / Hampton / Newport News, VA)

I have three grown children. I have always wanted to support my children,even though the mothers of my children never got married. But because child support has been a way for the the laws involving child support and the women of the children pretty much keeps the man out the child's life.

I say that for the following reasons. I have always may it a point to make sure that money was taken from my pay checks and all tax refunds where taken and placed towards my child support. But in the state of Virginia (which has some of the most racist and negative laws in the country, because of it's Commonwealth status and being one of the 1st slave states to have slavery), men in general(especially Black men)are treated are as slaves in respect to there children. Virginia has a Willie Lynch mentality that make him a slave to child support simply for the money factor. They incarcerate you when you pay your child support and when you don't. A lost of job and none payment will get you locked up. So how is that helping the child in the long run. I have been locked up behind child support, which forced my employer to fire me. Of course the court didn't give a damn, because it was about the law. They had no reasons to lock me up for child support, because the child support was being paid.

Now here I am 2 months away from becoming a 60 year old African male still paying child support to a state and the fact that all of my children are grown adults and will be starting their own families one day. Virginia as well as other states and rich white America has just found another way to divide and conquer the Black race.
Take the male element out of the child's life and the woman and children become even more of the slaves to a White Willie Lynch society.
Men need to fight the bull shit laws of this country when it comes down to their seeds and women you should change your attitudes when comes down to men. Because you open your legs, and then hold men totally responsible for the bullshit involving Child Support.




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the race card
by: Anonymous

Race dont have anything to do with it. Im a white man and i pay child support every month and i got screwed too. the problem is the way that the laws are written.

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Race?
by: Anonymous

What does you being Black have anything to do with anything. White people pay child support as well dude...get over the Race issue.

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unfair
by: Anonymous

Yes it is unfair that a minute part of the majority of men pay their child support yet, most do not. It is not about who spread their legs because the man drops the seed into the woman to create the life. Anyway, if the majority of men manned up and took care of their children emotionally, physically, and financially, the "white man" would not have to step in and help him out. If you lose your job, create your own job, cut grass, cut hair, clean beauty/barbershops, push bean pies, do whatever it takes to support your kid. Because if the mother is single I am sure she is doing what has to be done to take care of that child with an absentee father. Stop whining about the situation and do something to turn the situation around.

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unfair
by: Anonymous

I agree with you. I am a woman but some single mom out there all they do just collecting child support and never go to work. On top of that, they are supported with the government by means of their food and etc. I don't know how they get away with that..I hate women who are lazy all they do is milking the state. It's totally unfair and the government here in u.s really sucks esp.when it comes to child support. Every week they taken a lot of money from our paycheck and that pays for the single mom and low income people. I don't really agree with that. You need to work to survive esp. in our situation right now.

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