Using the system to create a dead beat image of father.
by Carl : FC2009-070398
My ex-wife ran off with a co-worker. I found out, told her I wanted divorce. She came home one day, we argued and i grabbed her phone. She wanted it back so she reached for it knocking it to the floor breaking it.
Instantly I'm accused of CHILD ABUSE and Have a DV charge because her phone broke. She get's Order of protection, brings 3 family members to court and lie (under oath) that she was abused for 10 years and she's living in fear of her life. Amazingly just as rent was pasted due, lights were cut off and she had this new amazing boyfriend in her life. ALL IN THE SAME WEEK. The OP kept me from seeing my kids for over a year until I filed for divorce. NOW I owe her 11k in back support because I was forced to stay AWAY by lAW for that year.
The judge during the divorce even treated me like a dead beat father and awarded her custody because she moved into an abuse shelter with our three kids and he fell for the VICTIM running for her life bit. WOW! ABUSED for ten years but the only proof was a cell phone that she slapped out of my hand. Not a single police report, CPS report or medical report exists to support any abuse allegation.
Thanks Arizona. TAKING SIDEs without KNOWING or caring about the facts or the truth or the children.
Why did I(the accused abuser)file for the divorce? Shouldn't it be the other way around if She left for her life? She had no intention on filing divorce because she was racking up the STATE MONEY getting AHCCS, TANF, Cash assistance and Food Stamps. They only gave her $1500 total. What REAL abused, needy woman would wait 1 year for $1500 from the State and not pursue her husband who make over $55k a year for immediate support?