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Each person should be reviewing their child support orders! Study on what is written in the order and object to anything you don't agree to BEFORE the order is typed. Also modifications can be done. I'm tired of hearing the sob stories of rights being stripped away, etc. etc. As long as you're in the USA, no one can keep you away from your kids. Get an attorney and fight for your damn kids! It should clearly state within the order that the Custodial Parent cannot keep the NCP away from the kids regardless of him paying or not. Otherwise, the CP would be violating the order. Duh. Yes, many parties are difficult because of them placing the kids in the middle or using them or just being plain nasty. The father should know what type of 'monster' he created the entire time the breakup was anticipated. If you left the woman bitter & scorned it's your own fault. If no one can maturely handle the situation, shame on you. Grow up!
And furthermore, leave your Mamas out of your business! You'd be surprised of them being the source of all the anguish!
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