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When will a father be consider equal to a mother.

by Robert Pickering
(Caifornia)

So much for equal right when the table is turn. Hush, don't say anything about mothers. There is nothing in this world more up side down then getting divorce and have all the rights striped away from you. It doesn't matter if you have a cheating spouse or a spouse on drugs. As a man you are scum in the eyes of the law. You are treated that way until your child support is fully paid off. I always wounder what drives a politician to treat another human being as garbage. We would never do this to a woman. The court record show that ladies don't pay near the amount if any to the few cases that men do get the children. Where are the demonstration and out rage about the injustice that man face. The social norm is to make fun of the blithe of a broken man or call him names and make movies on how evil a dead beat father( never a dead beat mother). Girls even though they are to small are allow into the fire department. They are allowed any job as a man but a father still is consider a second class parent. The mother is not all ways the best for the child and a father can do as well as a mother can. Every flaw you can find in a man, you can find in a woman. Every strength you can find in a woman you can find in a man. If woman ask for equality then really lets change the system and take marriage out of the hand of politician and judges.

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Dec 13, 2011
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by: kc777

Couldn't have said it any better. I just shake my head.

Dec 01, 2011
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Where is the justice??????
by: Anonymous

I'm married to a wonderful man who is a great father to his 11 year old twin boys. He's been ordered by the court to pay child support and rehabilitative alimony to his ex wife. The alimony will expire in one year. His employer has decreased his salary by 30,000 less a year. It was either that or lose his job completely. In this economy he had no choice but to accept the decrease. We are trying to get the child support lowered and he's being told by his attorney that it's nearly impossible. It would be up to the judge. Seriously!!!!!I don't understand how that can be. He's barely making ends meet right now and the ex is living the lavish life with his money. SHE's living the lavish life because it is not reflected on the boys. They arrive at our house for their visits wearing clothes and shoes too small, Haven't bathed or brushed teeth in days, Haven't had a decent cooked meal in weeks, Stuggling in school, unsupervised on the internet (looking at porn sites), left home alone, etc. It's all about "HER". We are in the midst of a custody battle but my husband is about to throw in the towel because the courts favor the mother even though SHE does not have the best interest of the child at heart. In the meantime, we need to get the child support lowered because we can barely pay our own bills. We live in Mississipi. Anyone out there with some words of advice??????? Thanks. Good luck to all of you fighting this battle. Godspeed!!!

Apr 05, 2011
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I totally agree
by: Anonymous

I am a woman and I agree that men need more rigths to their children. They are just as important as the mothers! I can't stand to hear well she is the mother! Ok it took both of them to get the baby! My boyfriend's laywer told him to be careful because the courts will quickly take time away from you if you take her back. Well what if she is not going by the order the court laid out for them? Every day he comes over you can tell he hasn't had a bath and she never gives him his medicines but she runs him to the doctor everyday. She always wants the father to fix everything but she won't do anything to help him grow as a child. then it is time for a holiday and she tries to take away his days (even when its his turn). I wish there was something I could do to make it an equil state. It is just not fair when the Father is doing everything he can to be apart of his childs life and she can make all the choice for him. What is the point of going to court and making an agreement if only one person can make them all.

Oct 28, 2010
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mothers held accountable
by: Anonymous

You are right... and when will non costodial dirt bag mom's be held accoutable for the same things dad's are? My Husband's ex from high school lost custody of their daughter and has yet to follow one court order or pay a full months child support. You and I both know if it was my husband doing the same thing, he would be in jail. He was also asked to pay more child support to her when he didn't even have a job. Why is that? Where is the justice for parents trying to do right by their children?

Aug 18, 2010
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I just don't get it
by: Anonymous

we as fathers need rights, how is it that my ex agrees to everything when made the divorce agreement, starts living with her boy friend in my old house and with my 2 kids 2 weeks after I moved out. Then has me go to meadeation to have the agreement change because she made a mistake in the requirement for the children to remain in a school dist. Once the changes are done she moves my children away from me. Then after I have to move and get a better job so that I can get bennifits. She has the " BALLS " to say that if I don't pay more then are agreement she is going to get everything I owe my children for leaving then. WHAT KING OF JUSTICE IS THAT ????? My case is up for review. guess whats going to happen to me ???????????

Aug 18, 2010
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So True
by: Anonymous

I agree I'm dealing with my fiance's ex and all her crap. She isnt a great mother, she doesnt have a job, I'm pretty sure the only thing she feeds their little boy is junk food(judging by his rotting and chipped teeth, and he's not even two),she hasnt even attempted to potty train him becuase we do at our house and he does fine and then he goes home and it's back to letting him sit in his own filth for hours until he has horrible diaper rash.
She smokes pot, and cigarettes around the little boy and drinks with him there even though she is under age. She cant even afford to take care of herself, but when the court looked at the situation they just ignored all of that. They told my fiance that because they were never married and because he didnt see the child for the first 7 months of his life(BTW not because he didnt want to but because she wouldnt let him) that he would never get custody and couldnt even have the child's last name changed to his.
She has taken my fiance's little boy out of town for months because she was mad at him and me and when we took her to court she was found in contempt but nothing was done to her and as for my fiance's $1,500 lawyer bill she had to pay a whole whoping $200 becuase she was considered a "pauper" by the court because she is too lazy and white-trash to get a job when the government and child support will pay for everything, including a free college education.
So I'm a woman and I completely agree with you FATHER'S GET SCREWED when it comes to equality in the legal system.

Jun 04, 2010
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We do need Fathers rights
by: Anonymous

Yes we do need fathers rights. I am not sure how to get it . But I am sure if enough men and women ban together and get something going to the Law makers . perhaps we can get equal rights.

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