WHO MONITORS THE JUDGE WHO ENFORCES CHILD SUPPORT!!!!!

by Father Father
(Yonkers, New York)

Today I walk into court, the first thing i do is get attacked by a JUDGE who has no clue. Automatically I'm a dead beat, yet I have been in my daughter's life every step of the way. Who in the world they think they are? GOD? this Napoleon complex is out of control and needs to be regulated.


There are a lot of responsible father's out there, men who take care of their kids, but for the mother's is never enough. They drag us into court and the JUDGE whom hear our cases cater to them hand and feet. This is why men do what they do and are forced to make irrational decisions.

Let me tell you my story; My daughter is 14, her BM has custody of her. We were never a real couple and thru it all I have always assumed my responsibility. Thru my daughters 14 years she has been shipped to me 3 times for periods of one year or more. Never have I asked her mother for any support during those times. The latest one was for 2 1/2 years, which came to an end a month ago. Two weeks after guess what I got? Served!!!!!!. When I stepped into court today the JUDGE tells me that is irrelevant!!! your fault for not pursuing your rights for child support. (Hey JUDGE maybe just maybe I'm not as greedy or an ass like my baby momma). I try to keep it civil and not have the government or city agencies dictate my life, specially when it comes to my kid's!!!!!!

Why go thru this process? when you get there you are already stereotyped and ignored!!!! Nothing you have ever done is IRRELEVANT.

Basically seems like a criminal proceeding!!!!!!!

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nazi ss
by: FIGHT BACK

No one, their out of control. They will do what ever they can to get re-elected. Judges do what ever is popular. This shit wont stop till people start getting killed.

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Bexar B-32 judge
by: Anonymous

Old gay ass....It's a small world though !!!!!!

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Dishonorable John Beisel
by: Anonymous

In the eyes of the family court, a good father does not need to give social, moral or lovingly support, just as long as he pays child support. “Honorable John Beisel”
This is exactly what was told to me in court after I was forced to commute over 4 hours daily to keep up with the $1,400.00 support order for one child. When I tell my story of my ordeal witht the Ulster Family court system, people think it's fiction. I was forced to keep up payments according to my old salary even after I was laid off, for a complete year. I have been divorced for over 14 years, remarried with two daughters. Non of this mattered to the courts. My family had to live on $200.00 a week while my employed ex recieved $1,400. My wife had to get a second job just to pay my ex's child support to avoid me going to jail. I can go on and on, the bottom line is that judges like John Beisel need to use discretion. I thought the Family courts were here to protect our families, so how can he justify sacraficing one family to feed another?

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Judges don't care
by: Anonymous

I brought my ex to Court for back Child Support. We have a Court Ordered agreement in place. My ex did not request a reduction in support until he was over $2,700 behind. When I went to court, the (male) judge backdated everything and stated my ex did not owe me any back support and going forward doesn't need to pay any more. Why bother having a written agreement in place if no one needs to follow it? I had to borrow the money from family to keep my head above water... now I have no way of paying it back and am over $500 in the hole each month trying to support my son. I have no idea what to do!! This Judge didn't look at the whole picture any only took my ex's side. Let's top it off with changing an AGREED UPON VISITATION ORDER without my permission!

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Answer to Who Monitors the Judge
by: Anonymous

Each state should have a board, commission, or some other government agency in which you can file a formal written complaint with. In my state, it is the Commission on Judicial Performance, which is usually available on the web, but you might have to mail or deliver the complaint in person. Now don't expect much as the system is dominated by lawyers and judges who all socialize together and belong to the same legal associations and organizations. However, if enough people complain and leave enough of a paper trail, someone may eventually notice and take action.

Another option is to contact your state's BAR association. This is the agency that licenses every attorney in your state to practice law. You can also submit a complaint with that agency. Again, the paper trail all you'll probably accomplish.

Even the state legislature needs to hear from you, so write them a letter and ask them to rewrite the law in your state OR Congress; the attorneys and judges do.

Also, most judges are either appointed or elected. So just before re-election time, start a public campaign to stop their re-election. If between elections, they may be removed by some legal procedure or petition.

Finally, judges and lawyers are humans and subject to the law and bad publicity just as anyone else. So exercise your right to file a complaint with the FBI if you feel that a judge has crossed the line either under Color of Law Federal Statutes or possibly under Deprivation of Rights. You'll have to read and research these laws and cases in detail to understand and use to your advantage. Be careful not to file false claims and provide substantial evidence to support your claims if possible.

Above all else complain publicly! Call your local news station, radio station, newspaper. Be careful to only state facts and not opinions.

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Bad Judges
by: Anonymous

Judges need to consider each case ,and each man separate from each other. Not all Mothers make good parents,My brother was told same thing by a judge that what he had to say was irrelevant does not seem to matter that the mom doesn't want to take care of her own child.He has been with his Dad for 3 months now and finally got a call from good old Mom who is still getting her child support.He doesn't have the money to fight for full custody,so mom gets to take the money and do whatever she pleases!! This so called Judges really need to wake up do what is best for the child check into it talk to witnesses,don't just listen to the Birth Mom,anyone can give birth,but it takes a lot of work and love to be a good parent The System is not working and it makes the good Dads suffer ,because of the bad ones! UPSET in Ohio!!!

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SOMETHING HAS TO BE DONE ASAP!
by: Anonymous

I AM A FATHER WHO HAS PAID CHILD SUPPORT FOR YEARS...I WAS SENT TO JAIL RECENTLY BY A WOMAN JUDGE, MS. EMMA ANDREWS, WHO IS NOTORIOUS FOR THROWING GUYS IN JAIL. I CAN UNDERSTAND BETTER IF A GUY REFUSES OR IS TRYING TO DODGE HIS RESPONSIBILITIES. HERE I AM WORKING MY BUT OFF FOR PEANUTS, CANT AFFORD TO LIVE A NORMAL LIFE, AND BECAUSE IM NOT EARNING ENOUGH MONEY TO PAY ON FIVE DIFFERENT CASES, I CAN'T AFFORD TO MAKE MY PAYMENTS IN FULL. I'VE TRIED TO MODIFY AND WAS DENIED. TWO OF MY KIDS ARE OVER 18, AND SHE(THE JUDGE)STILL WON'T LOWER MY PAYMENTS...I FEEL THIS JUDGE IS NOT FAIRLY EXERCISING THE LAWS THAT WERE PUT IN PLACE TO HELP GUYS , IN MY CASE, WHO IS TRYING TO TAKE CARE OF RESPONSIBILITY, PLEASE TELL ME WHO AND WHERE CAN I TURN...THROWING US IN JAIL ONLY TAKES AWAY FROM CHILD SUPPORT.

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Worst Judge ever!
by: Anonymous

I was the plaintant, my mother was respondant, my brother E.S, is HER LAWYER EVEN THOUGH HE HAS GIVEN US ADVICE ON THIS!
The first thing he(the judge) did was have the lawyer in.( Golf anyone, is my assumption and in no way stating they are friends or have any prior relationship). I was not allowed to speak, There was a female deputy with a bad dye job wearing her gun on her left side who kept telling me "SHHH" and "be quiet" while about 2 feet away, her hand in my face and her gun in my face. It scared me to death! I am non-violent and do not have any criminal record and felt absolutely terrified because she appeared so angry!
Well, Magistrate John Biesel kept admonishing me for talking ( I can't afford a lawyer) and interupting but allowed the lawyer to speak and say "if it please the court" to interupt any time he wanted! I WAS JUST TRYING TO GET MONEY THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO GO TO ME FOR 8 YEARS THAT MY MOTHER TOOK!
I wanted the money back to get my 17 year old son a car, insurance,etc. He is a high school student with a PT job, does well in school and was promised by my mother, the lawyer and myself, a car when he turned 16. She changed her mind and won't get him one now out of the money she kept (and put my son's name on)nor did his Uncle.
We had lunch after he turned 17 and she still won't release the money for a car.
That is the only reason we took her to court. The judge said it was not a Family Court matter, but a civil one! Every payment went through the child support collection unit!
The law states that the money goes where the child lives. Why do I know that and I'm not a lawyer?

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i feel your pain
by: Anonymous

I have been going to family court with my ex wife for ten years.Never once has this judge john beisel in ulster county new york listen to a word i say.Every thing is always out of his hands or some other lame line.Then he gives my ex wife what ever she asks for my kids are 20 and 18 years of age.Ihave remarried and have 4 great kids with my new wife who are being punished.Where are the rights.How can these judges get a way with this crap.And better yet how do we stop it .I have sent letters to everyone i could think of to change the laws and no one has gotten back to me.Maybe if we could all show how much we hate these lawsevery one send in letters and email and phone calls like i have we could get some thing acomplished. There are thousands of us out there.

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judge
by: Anonymous

That judge needs to be held in contempt of the constitution. He is a sexist asshole.

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Totally Agree
by: Anonymous

Wow, we must've had the same judge!!! I'm kidding, as i'm in TX, but there's a judge here (Motherall) who is known to be a 'man hating' judge. No matter HOW polite you are, she screams at you, cuts you off when you're trying to answer, and threatens to have you charged with contempt for no reason. I've watched the audience literally sit on the pews with their mouths agape and eyes big, because no one could believe how this judge talked to me. And it isn't just me...she's listed on several websites as one of the worst man hating judges there are. Finally, a few years ago, I think she was investigated and she was taken off the bench.
But still,...look at the many, many kids and dads who have had to suffer because of the attitude and hard heart of one judge. Those years can never be replaced or made up for, and whether some mothers OR judges disagree with me...OUR CHILDREN NEED US JUST AS MUCH AS THEY NEED THEIR MOMS!
Our daughters are growing up without their fathers as role models to show them how men are suppose to act and treat their wives and children.

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Search New York Law and Supreme Court decisions Parents rights /fathers rights/childs rights.
by: Anonymous

Who mponitors that judge? Hard yo say, most likely it was not even a JUDGE. More important is this. When you say "shipped to me" do you mean from another state. Is this Court you went before the court that made the first order? It the term "SHIPPED TO you" that makes me think your defence may be in the state law of the court that made the first order. You have a defence if what you say is true. If you think of it this way it may make it easier to fight your Ahole Judge. Child Support is a human right says United Nations. BOTH PARENTS HAVE A DUTY TO DUPPORT. Then USA makes The Uniformed Interstate Family Support Act. BOTH PARENTS HAVE DUTY TO SUPPORT. Presidential Order by Clinton. BOTHE PARENTS HAVE A DUTY TO SUPPORT. Parents don't have a right to support the child does. Tell that to your judge. All States must have simular or (close to the same) laws. You are right in saying that you were attacked by the JUDGE. He can do that because you came before him with no weapon. Your only weapon that can put him in his place is A pen and paper. Get a pen and paper and start writing your brief. What is a brief? A letter to the Judge. If he has not made a final order than it is not to late for this go around. Just let him know that you are The Father and The US constitution makes you more powerful than he is in this Familiar business. Familiar Rights are Natural rights and they are added to the enumerated rights you have in us constitution like equal rights from the get go not after petitioning and begging THE KING OF NEW YORK that hangs out in a family court room in Yonkers. Just tell him When you have possesion of the child for periods longer than periods that have been ordered you expect offsets in child support. You weren't asking for the other parent to shell out her duty or demanding what the child has a human right too but you are demanding your money will be used to feed house and nurture your child when the child is in your custody for periods longer than agreed to or ordered by the court. From now on be prepared keep notes in your DIARY OF A MOMMY TRAPPED IN A DADDYS BODY. Each day take a few minutes and write down your thoughts. Date them and your BRIEF will be ready for your next visit with the JUDGE. Who monitors the JUDGE in family court? The US Constitution says YOU DO. You control Family Matters and you control THE JUDGE. But you have to do that with written Petitions,written Motions and written Briefs. Hopes this helps.

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