WHO MONITORS THE JUDGE WHO ENFORCES CHILD SUPPORT!!!!!
by Father Father
(Yonkers, New York)
Today I walk into court, the first thing i do is get attacked by a JUDGE who has no clue. Automatically I'm a dead beat, yet I have been in my daughter's life every step of the way. Who in the world they think they are? GOD? this Napoleon complex is out of control and needs to be regulated.
There are a lot of responsible father's out there, men who take care of their kids, but for the mother's is never enough. They drag us into court and the JUDGE whom hear our cases cater to them hand and feet. This is why men do what they do and are forced to make irrational decisions.
Let me tell you my story; My daughter is 14, her BM has custody of her. We were never a real couple and thru it all I have always assumed my responsibility. Thru my daughters 14 years she has been shipped to me 3 times for periods of one year or more. Never have I asked her mother for any support during those times. The latest one was for 2 1/2 years, which came to an end a month ago. Two weeks after guess what I got? Served!!!!!!. When I stepped into court today the JUDGE tells me that is irrelevant!!! your fault for not pursuing your rights for child support. (Hey JUDGE maybe just maybe I'm not as greedy or an ass like my baby momma). I try to keep it civil and not have the government or city agencies dictate my life, specially when it comes to my kid's!!!!!!
Why go thru this process? when you get there you are already stereotyped and ignored!!!! Nothing you have ever done is IRRELEVANT.
Basically seems like a criminal proceeding!!!!!!!