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Why do we even have parental plans?

by Jon
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I was recently divorced and as part of the divorce we had a parental plan stating i could talk to my daughter anytime I want and I can see her on certian holidays ect. It seems like my ex will do anything to keep my from my little girl. She is always calling me a dead beat, though I pay child support. Why is there no punishment when I have court ordered papers to talk to and see my daughter, yet I dont get to talk to her and I have to bend over backwards to see my daughter? But Say I didn't pay child support or trashed talked my ex or tried to keep my ex from her daughter. which I would never do,Why is it I would get all the punishment and she gets nothing. My ex always lies about alot of things. Why does it seem dads have no rights even if we have rights on the paper from the court. When I called the court that issued the divorce and parental plan that she wasent following the plan. They said I have to take her back to court. Makes no sense that I have to go back to court when she is not honoring what the court just put in writing. The courts have alot of things backwards and it makes me sick. I know for the next 14 years I will have to fight tooth and nail to see or talk to my daughter. There is alot more to the story but what you have read above is the most important part. I just want to be in my daughters life and my ex doesnt want me in it and the courts are basicly letting her take my daughter away from me. She tells my daughter that i am not her dad and that her new husband is. That is also in the paper to not speak ill of the other parent let alone say they are not their parent period. I also do everything the legal way and i am truthful and it has gotten me no where fast.






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Why do we even have parental plans?

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What if it was the judge going thru this.lol
by: mark

Alot of people think there are so many dead beat dads. Well, let me tell you there are as many women that are also. We men that actually care about our kids in a divorce ,are getting riped off by the judical system. They don;t care and never will. They just want the money they get to look good on the stand. As far as the lawyers go,they care even less. If nything is going to change ,it's going to bre the guys that put mor pressure on the courts. Flat out ,it sucks.

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PARENTAL PLANS DO NOT WORK
by: Anonymous

iam a new father who took care of soon from dayone. were not together now and she will not let me see my son why have a parental plans. she leave him with her mom all the time but i can not she him we live 5min away

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my daughters dad is a dead beat
by: Anonymous

i have a five year old girl whos dad is a dead beat dad he has olny seen her a handful of times and she hasn't stayied the night much but when she went something always bad happend like letting her get a yeast infection so bad she was hospitalized for 2 days,giving away her car seat and leaving her without one,her step brother and sisters teaching her about sex and french kissing,she just turned five in febuary 2011,they lived in at tralier park and the kids took her to a burned down barn outside of the triler park and told her there where dead bodies there,he is four months behind in child support and hasn't called since they took his taxes,he lies and says i am the one being a bitch about not letting him see her when its him this is some of the crappy stuff he has done to us tell his family lies to make me look like the bad guy in the situation,when i would be happy if he just called to tell her hi ilove you,not fill her head with crap,like she has her own room full of toys,then when she gets down there they don't even have clothes for her to wear,she has to share a bed with two girls and a step brother wich in my onpinion is not a good idea the girls is ok but a brother what the hell are they thinking? so its fathers like him who do give good dads a bad name she has a step father who she asked if she could call dad because she wanted too nobody forced her.when we took her father to court i wanted his rights taken away because i don't think he deserves to say he is her father and he didn't even so up for court cause he was already in trouble for skipping out on another court thing but the judge wouldn't take them so i imagine if you took the mom to court and had proof of the situation the judge would help you out show how much you want this opportunity to grow with youre children and be ther for them.

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It's not just dads that have no rights
by: Anonymous

Noncustodial parents have no rights, whether they are moms or dads. Sure, we have rights on paper, but no one enforces them. My kids are now old enough and don't want to see me anyway thanks to the things that they have been told about me that I don't even bother anymore. I just pay my child support every month, call them when I can and let them know I still love them, and let it go at that.

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