I to married a looser stone head. He ony pays 154.00 a month on the two boys but guess what is almost 19000 dollars behind in child support. He is now a child advocate in Abilene Texas for LULAC (supposibly in fact has cards he paaes around that says he is). LOL what a joke he cant support his own children, but can run all over the state in support of other children. He tries to make me struggle in fact tells the boys that I should pay for everything since I wanted them and if he had them he would support them. Funny thing he also says he is disabled but has no problems organizing rallies, and holding news conferences etc. He has kept the boys twice illegally costing me thousands in order to get them back. I work two and three jobs to support the boys. Well what comes around goes around. In November this supposed child advocate went to jail for 6 months for his second contempt of court. ( he spent 15 days the 1st time two years ago.) They told him that he could stay out of jail if he paid 1800.00 dollars but instead he chose to go to jail. He thinks he would be making me rich if he pays his 154.00 a month. This is a man who plays out that he is a great father to everyone, demands every bit of visitation, has the money to travel to all the ball games, sits in the stands eating alsorts of the food at the ballgames(funny thing I cant afford this)Alot of people say that going to jail is of no help, its a huge help, this man doesnt work so why not at least he cant be harrassing me, I will have 6 months of peace from this convicted domestic violence abuser. I have been divorced 12 years from this looser, one of the times he refused to return the boys from visitation he called my daughter and told her that if I went back with him then he would return the boys and I could work and he could stay home with the boys. FAT CHANCE never ever will I take in this looser so he can sit around and get high.