Well I pay child support for my daughter that I don't get to see. I live in Pennsylvania, and my child lives in California with her mother. I pay child support, and have even spent time in jail for falling behind on my payments. The support order is from California, and the domestic relations office in the county that I live in here in Pennsylvania enforces the order. I got jailed, because it took Pennsylvania over 18 months to finally get in contact with California, or vice versa. Am I able to file a lawsuit, because of the mistake that was made? The reason for my child living in California is because that is where my ex is from. I was stationed in Southern California while I was in the military. I am allowed to visit my daughter, but the problem I have is as long as I pay support I won't be able to visit my daughter since the payments I make are to much. I don't live in California anymore and the last time I filed to have my payments lowered I got denied, because they said I make enough money. I make $3 less an hr now than what I made while I lived in the state of California. I tried going back in the military again, and because I owe back child support I'm automatically DQ'd from joining again.
Hey Man. I feel for you. I am worried about the same thing. I pay 500 every month to my ex who makes more than twice the amount I do every month from trust funds, her and her family are millionares! I have fallen behind a few months but I pay as much as I can but I'm sure because of their wealth They can hire any scumbag attorney to hide her fourtune. This same woman who has millions in education trusts and applies for FAFSA so she gets extra money that is intended the poor to go to college!These laws need to be changed! It's time for all of us good fathers to raise hell!
