X-WIFE said she will get paid regardless of what I try to do.......

by Keith Johnson
(Illinois)

I have been divorced now from my x wife for 5 years I just found out after 13 years that I am not the child father and she forged my signature on the birth certificate. The son would always come over and say who do I look like I want to know who do I look like because he did not look like me or his mother. I then became skeptical because she would barely let me see him or spend time with him. She would always say no one better not do a DNA test on him.


Me and my fiance moved very close in the area because we wanted to be close to him. Then there was a lot of problems came with everything. So one day we took a DNA testing for him to find out if I was his Father or not it turned out that all these years I was not the father. I ended up telling her that she said it don't matter you are going to pay regardless and she been knew and will always take my check until her son turns 18 years old. So you telling me with her proof and sending me harrasing messages and everything telling me that she already knew I wasn't the father and everything else that I still have to pay for the child.

She said I can't do nothing about it and she has the upper hand we have been played and she don't care and I still can't see him and she will still take my money I feel this is not right and any judge that let cases like these go is not right and this need to be changed just because the Parent is receiving assistance from the state.

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Liar or Jerk, not sure
by: H8ter

SO.... you mean to say that all these years, your *forged* signature has been on the child's birth certificate, you didn't know? (Were you married to her when the baby was born?) And when you got a new fiance, you decided to do a DNA test to prove that the child wasn't yours?
It sounds to me that you hooked up with the chick, decided to take her word for it (or maybe you knew the child wasn't yours, but wanted to be a daddy anyway) signed the BC (but if you were married, you are automatically named the father) and then ended up paying child support. Now that you have a new woman in your life, you don't want to pay for the boy anymore.
You have been Daddy all these years, and now you want to destroy the boy because you have a new woman. I am so glad you aren't my child's father,(biological or not) I would castrate you.

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Go to court
by: Anonymous

I would press criminal charges against her for forgery first of all. Then I would take it to family court and present your evidence to the judge. I can't guarantee that the judge will rule in your favor, but he may and it's probably worth a shot. If you fathered the child knowing he wasn't yours, the judge would probably still identify you as the father and force you to pay. But since she deceived you, you have a better chance of winning your case. Now, here's the kicker. After all is said and done, are you willing to walk away from this child? He may not be yours, but you have bonded with him and you have been the only father he knows. If you expect to still act like his father, then you may have to pay like a father.

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They are all man haters
by: Anonymous

It doesn't matter. Unless you have the money to hire an expensive attorney, they won't listen to you. I went to arbitration and the man hating arbitrator wouldn't even let me speak at the hearing. I had documentation, and information and it didn't matter. I was trying to get my share of the daycare costs off of my support because my daughter had been out of daycare for three years and I was still paying for it! Basically, I was paying 25% of my paycheck to her! All the arbitrator said to me was, "That's what she is used to getting so, that's what you are paying her." The arbitrators in NYS are appointed, and probably take the job to get even. Even enforcement said the system even punishes us for doing the right thing. It is better to stay with them and be miserable, then divorce the bitch!

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thats scandalous
by: Anonymous

You can go to your family courthouse and file a petition because she put your name on the birth certificate and if you got a dna test and the kids not yours you bring that info to court the judge will grant in your favor and also file a petition to get that money back flip it on her and have the upper hand

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Yes You Are Going To Pay
by: Anonymous

I feel bad for this person, but she is correct. You married her and the child know's you as the acting father and your name is on the birth certificate, You Know what? I would take her to Civil Court. Sue her for Defimation of Character, and pain and suffering of mental anguish through out the years of taking care of them as a family, but to find out the child does not belong to you. And she recognized the damage for years.

Again people need to stand together, on these out dated Laws on Chil Support. It's taring people apart, mentaly and Physicaly.

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