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Yeah heres a story for you.

by P.B.M.G
(Fort mill, SC, United States.)

My son is 5 and a half months old this month. I am an 18 years old man, and yes young to be a parent I know. I moved in with my parents after me and my girlfriend split apart when my son was 2 months old. We just decided it was better that way. I had no problem with her dating, even if it was my best friend. I helped her through every single issue she had, and she never once helped me with my emotional problems. I tried to fix their 4 month long relationship which turned into almost getting married within those 4 months.
After about 2 months of moving down here I finally found a temporary job delivering pizzas. Something to put money on the table to my son and in the bank you know? Something simple and not permanent. I just got off the phone with her and this is what i got. "Pathetic, loser, low-life piece of shit".

I currently attend York Technical College full time to get my Radiologic Technician certificate and bachelors shortly after. I work every single day of the week to make enough to pay the bills I have and give her the rest. Low-life piece of shit right? I got accepted for a 3000 loan which was going towards a new car, seeing as my only transportation for work and school broke down and would cost 4000 to fix. She insisted that since I have "Nothing to spend it on" She gets two thousand of it, even though she gets her own student loans and financial aide AND a boyfriend to pay for her shit.

As of tonight, I am not allowed to see my son, or talk to him, or see pictures of him. This is what she told me on the phone, simply because I was a loser and a low-life piece of shit ( I doubt ever meeting her at this point ).
This is a perfect example of the term which means, "female dog" and I hope no one else in the world has to put up with this.

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Document Everything - Go To Court
by: Anonymous

She's given you no choice but to go to court. Make sure you save everything. Instead of calling her to see your child, text or email her. When she responds and tells you no, push her. Get her to call you names. Do whatever you can to make her look bad in court. Once you have proof that she is denying your rights as a father, file for custody. Yes, I'm telling you to step up and fight. If you can prove in court that she is preventing you from seeing your child, she can forfeit her rights as the custodial parent. You need to attack her before she attacks you. You don't want to get the surprise letter on your doorstep telling you she is filing for custody and child support. Take control. I'm going through it and hindsight is 20/20. I gave my ex wife too many chances and all she has done is burn me over and over again. My ordeal has lasted 18 months so far and keeps getting worse. I have a custody/visitation agreement in place, but she has prevented me from seeing my kids by turning them against me. At first, I decided to let some time pass so they could see for themselves, but now I'm going to put up a huge fight and do everything I can to take her down. I suggest you do the same before she turns around and burns you even more.

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"I'm A Great Father"
by: Anonymous

i am a good father been their since my two kids were born never complained get along with common law wife great now my son turns three my daughter turns 8 months medicaid decides to put me on child support because i suppos..a dead beat dad i told the attorny gen..that i support my kids in every way imaginable except healthcare cause i honestly cant afford it now i have no job due to no one wants to hire im trying though so basically they forced me into child support on top of medical support even though my wife cleary said in front of me she dont want me on child support..now the medical support i understand i'll pay that but child support i'm with my wife i do support my kids everyday we may not live in the same house but we are one happy family. plus i'm a full time student they told me to stay up 24 hours go to school during the day and work overnight can yall beleive that...i'm a good father a great father my wife can vouch for me on that.unlike real deadbeat dads who dont even claim their children...what do i do???

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I am sorry to hear
by: Anonymous

I am sorry to hear that you are finding out that a lot of mothers take on that role of putting us men down. Like we gave them a deases not a child and they treat us like we are a deases. Pass your information on to every guy you meet and explain to them how we fathers are not human after having a baby. We don't deserve a good life because we had a child. I do have to tell you though it's only going to get worse. The more money you make the more they will take and if you lose your job the child support will not go down you will only fall behind and be placed in jail (for nothing). So I am not to sure you or any or us should seek a higher education to make more money because they will only take it. And if you think its bad now wait until you find the right girl for you and you have a baby with her and family and can't care for them because the child support is taking most your money. We as men must fight back to have these unfair, unjust and unconstitutional laws. Good Luck you will need ti.

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